My name is Mandy McDonald. I'm from St. Leonard's, East Sussex, and in September 2023 last year, I privately paid for a bilateral breast reduction.
Why did you book your initial consultation?
So, a reduction was something I wanted for a very, very long time because of the impact on my everyday life. I remember coming to see Mr Macdonald and talking through with him and bursting into tears and explaining to him why. Obviously, you know, when you go in for something like that, your Consultant wants to know why you want it done.
And it did impact. I had huge breasts that I had to carry around every single day. I had dents in my shoulders, I had pain in my neck and my back. It's seen as a glamorous thing, sometimes, to have big breasts, but I can honestly say hand on heart, it's not very glamorous, carrying them around. And only someone that is in that position, that has those, I think, can truly empathise.
Why did you choose Benenden Hospital for your breast reduction?
I wanted to look for somewhere locally and I know somebody that had used this hospital and she recommended it to me, and it's perfect because it's literally 40 minutes’ drive.
After meeting Mr Macdonald, it just put everything at rest. You know, I'd saved a long time for the operation, and I just knew then this is where I'm going to come for that operation.
How did you find the surroundings and environment at Benenden Hospital?
It's just set in stunning grounds, isn't it? It's beautiful, absolutely beautiful. You know, I think, you know, it's your ideal place for coming for an operation and sort of having that space around you is lovely. And the facilities, it's just clean, it's well kept, everybody is so welcoming.
How did you find the post-operative care at Benenden Hospital
Kate and Mr Macdonald both came in to see how I was. And I remember saying to them, am I flat chested? And they said “No, no, definitely not flat chested” And again, you know, just checking out how I was, am I comfortable? And then, you know, spending the night in hospital; the food was lovely, really, really well looked after.
And then it's the start of, I remember, Mr Macdonald saying, well, it's your job now. You've got to go home. You've got to sit just for a couple of weeks, literally with your arms by your sides, not doing much at all, watching plenty of Netflix, getting waited on hand and foot. Because that part of the recovery is really, really important.
The really lovely thing was Kate was just at the end of the phone, end of the email, you know. I remember sending her pictures – are they meant to look like this. Is this ok? And she was just there, giving me reassurance the whole time.
How do you feel after your breast reduction?
I went from wearing compression bras after the op for six weeks. And then once I didn't have to wear the compression bra anymore, it was like invigorating.
I can wear, you know, just a little sort of sports bra now or a crop top even dresses. I'm wearing dresses, backless dresses with no bra. I've never been able to do that. It's absolutely amazing.
Would you recommend Benenden Hospital?
I absolutely would recommend the hospital to anybody. And I already have, you know, I've got a couple of friends that are looking to have a breast reduction.
Don't look abroad, come here. You get so well looked after, you know, all the reassurance before the surgery. You come in on the day of the surgery and again, so well looked after and really looked after after the surgery and Kate, you know, the breast nurse is there to help you, answer any questions, reassure you. It's just such an amazing service.
What would your advice be to anyone thinking about breast reduction surgery?
It's made such an impact on my life. I just, again, I can't begin to name everything that is different for me.