Mental health awareness week takes place between 9 and 15 May this year, and the theme for this year is Loneliness.
Loneliness is affecting more and more people in the UK and this has a huge impact on both our physical and mental health. Our connection to other people, this may be our family or friends or people within the community is fundamental to protecting our mental health and wellbeing.
There’s no magic cure to combat loneliness, but if you’re struggling and feeling alone, it’s important to work out why you feel this way and then take steps to change your life for the better.
Here are some of our tips to help you tackle loneliness, reconnect with yourself and others:
1. Keep a journal
Writing about feelings can help process them, we often have events that continually play in our minds, writing them down is a way of clearing our mind. Asking yourself ‘why do I feel lonely?’ and writing your thoughts down can help to identify areas in your life that you need to process, or support with.
2. What does loneliness mean to you?
Have a think about your current situation and why you feel the way you do. What does loneliness mean to you? How does it make you feel? What do you feel you’re missing in life? What would you like to change?
3. Reconnect with yourself first
Now it’s time to reconnect with yourself. Hopefully you’ve worked out what you feel you’re missing, so now spend some time thinking about what you want to achieve. What do you need from life? What interests you? What motivates you? What kind of people do you want in your life? By discovering what you want, it will help you take the right steps to get there.
4. Focus on quality not quantity
It’s important to identify that connectedness is about the quality of relationships, not the quantity. So, make sure the relationships you have in your life make you feel good about yourself; spend time with kind-hearted, genuine people. Time is precious, so make sure you spend it with the right people.
5. Be mindful
Mindfulness is the practice of becoming aware of your thoughts and emotions as they happen, so you recognise them and accept them rather than trying to control or suppress them. Becoming more aware of the present moment can help you enjoy the world around you more and understand yourself better. There are many free apps to get you started. For more information visit the NHS Mindfulness website.
6. Fancy a meet up?
Try visiting sites like www.meetup.com which feature get-togethers with people in your local area. There are a wide range of events featured by people just like you, who want to find like-minded others to do activities with. There’s something for everyone, with categories ranging from sports to learning and food and drink to music. If there isn’t anything in your area yet, why not try setting something up yourself? Think about what interests you and go from there.
7. Get into nature
In 1982, the Japanese government introduced ‘Shinrikyo’ (forest bathing) to improve health and wellbeing. Shinrikyo is about the pleasure of being among tress. Studies by Chiba University reported that 30 minutes in a forest environment can lower blood pressure, the pulse rate, and concentrations of cortisol – which is body’s main stress hormone. It works with certain parts of your brain to control your mood, motivation and fear.
8. Take exercise
It can be easy to overlook how important exercise is to mental health. Exercise does not just produce dopamine, the “happy chemical”, it also boosts the brain’s ability to cope with stress by creating new neurons in the ventral region of the hippocampus, an area of the brain linked to the regulation of anxiety.
9. Stay connected
At times of stress, we work better in company and with support. Stay in touch with other people regularly on social media, email or on the phone, as they are still good ways of being close to the people who matter to you. Read our article on staying connected during the lockdown.
For men, the idea of reaching out is daunting. If you think a friend, husband or dad is struggling with depression or other mental health disorder, there are ways to help. Read our article on how men can improve their mental health.
For more advice and tips on how to look after your mental health during this time visit https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/coronavirus
Published on 13 May 2022